http://evilstepfather.org A Stepfather Dealing With Family Meltdown Mon, 15 Feb 2010 04:56:49 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en For some reason I end up dating crazy women. For Valentine's Day, I ended a relationship with someone. She was easily the most beautiful woman I have ever dated. She was incredibly sensual and by far the most fun in bed imaginable. We're talking a "Dear ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/crazy-women I've tried just about every dating site around in hopes of finding someone special. Unfortunately, there was no "spark" with any of the women I met. With one exception. Unfortunately, she is emotionally unavailable. There is zero chance of having any future with her. She's ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/dating I never did believe my former stepdaughter, Eszter, had stopped doing drugs even if my ex was naive enough to believe it. Here's my former stepdaughter getting high on the streets of Berkeley. She's the one on the far left lighting up on the pipe. When I first heard ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/drugs I decided I needed a new hobby. Something I can do at home, but does not involve computers as I already spend way too much time online. So I picked up an electric guitar (Epiphone Les Paul) and will sign up for lessons this weekend. The style ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/hobbies My former step-daughter just got herself a tattoo. I guess it's a way for her to celebrate her coming of age. I don't have a problem with that. I have a tattoo. I'm even considering getting another one. I don't consider her choice of location ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/anarchy Because not enough has gone wrong, now I'm experiencing pretty much constant pain from (probably) tendonitis in my right shoulder and arm. I've switched to using my left hand for anything I can, but some things require my right hand, e.g. shifting gears in my car. I would ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/pain I just read an interesting article on "forgiving" and how men and women differ when it comes to forgiving. One passage stood out: "What we found is that when men recalled their own offenses, they were more likely to empathize and then forgive. But they had to do that emotional ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/forgiving Since my ex threatened me with a libel suit, I thought I'd save her the bother of filing a case and wasting her money by pointing out why she would lose such a case. There are many defenses against a libel suit. I'll cover the ones that apply ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/libel My ex, Ildiko, had this to say in a recent email: I was told to get my daughter and myself out of our brutally toxic environment that lead her to drinking and drug use! She was told that by amateurs. People who had no training in family counseling. Who had ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/toxic Too often, after emailing her or posting something here, my ex would reply with something along the lines of, "anyone who could say such a thing couldn't possibly care about me or my daughter." I'm still trying to figure that out. If I'm all niceness I'm, at best, ... http://evilstepfather.org/article/spite