Comments for Evil Stepfather http://evilstepfather.org A Stepfather Dealing With Family Meltdown Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:06:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 Comment on Theft? by Ogre http://evilstepfather.org/article/theft/comment-page-1#comment-144 Ogre Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:42:53 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/theft#comment-144 The nice thing about libel cases is the truth is a guaranteed defense. Go talk to an attorney. You will be told you don't have a case. The nice thing about libel cases is the truth is a guaranteed defense.  Go talk to an attorney.  You will be told you don’t have a case.

]]> Comment on Theft? by Ildiko Weinberger http://evilstepfather.org/article/theft/comment-page-1#comment-143 Ildiko Weinberger Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:06:20 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/theft#comment-143 Since Ross chose to publish his rant titled, "Theft?" (August 20, 2008) on this website, whereas he is publicly attempting to damage my reputation with malicious intent, I hereby request that this post be removed immediately. Failure to do so will result in a libel lawsuit against Ross. -- Ildiko Weinberger, August 21, 2008. Since Ross chose to publish his rant titled, “Theft?” (August 20, 2008) on this website, whereas he is publicly attempting to damage my reputation with malicious intent, I hereby request that this post be removed immediately. Failure to do so will result in a libel lawsuit against Ross. — Ildiko Weinberger, August 21, 2008.

]]> Comment on Special Day by Ogre http://evilstepfather.org/article/special-day/comment-page-1#comment-75 Ogre Sat, 01 Sep 2007 05:02:13 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/special-day#comment-75 I see my post went right past you. I see my post went right past you.

]]> Comment on Special Day by Anya http://evilstepfather.org/article/special-day/comment-page-1#comment-74 Anya Fri, 24 Aug 2007 22:41:36 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/special-day#comment-74 And it was! Thanks for remembering. =) P.S. I just found out your work for ------! That is fantastic. I am very happy for you. Take care. And it was!

Thanks for remembering. =)

P.S. I just found out your work for ——!  That is fantastic.  I am very happy for you.
Take care.

]]> Comment on Single Again by Ogre http://evilstepfather.org/article/single-again/comment-page-1#comment-68 Ogre Sat, 02 Jun 2007 05:37:41 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/single-again#comment-68 One of the last things I told my (ex)wife in person before our separation was, "if the cost of saving your daughter's life is our marriage, then so be it." My actions were necessary, but still very painful. One of the last things I told my (ex)wife in person before our separation was, “if the cost of saving your daughter’s life is our marriage, then so be it.”

My actions were necessary, but still very painful.

]]> Comment on Conundrum by Ogre http://evilstepfather.org/article/conundrum/comment-page-1#comment-67 Ogre Sat, 02 Jun 2007 05:34:50 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/?p=11#comment-67 When my step-daughter started getting out of control I configured the home server to log all her AIM chats. I did not make this a secret. I set it up to automatically email the logs to my wife every night. The evidence was always readily available to her if she chose to look at it. I disliked the "snooping" and would have never considered doing it if it weren't for the special circumstances. However, because my (former) step-daughter is bipolar,and really couldn't control actions, it was a necessary precaution as it was impossible to watch her 24 hours a day. The precautions, unfortunately, were in vain since my (ex)wife was totally incapable of exercising any type of parental control over her daughter, even when her very life was in danger. When my step-daughter started getting out of control I configured the home server to log all her AIM chats.  I did not make this a secret.  I set it up to automatically email the logs to my wife every night.  The evidence was always readily available to her if she chose to look at it.

I disliked the “snooping” and would have never considered doing it if it weren’t for the special circumstances.  However, because my (former) step-daughter is bipolar,and really couldn’t control actions, it was a necessary precaution as it was impossible to watch her 24 hours a day.

The precautions, unfortunately, were in vain since my (ex)wife was totally incapable of exercising any type of parental control over her daughter, even when her very life was in danger.

]]> Comment on Single Again by Taylor http://evilstepfather.org/article/single-again/comment-page-1#comment-66 Taylor Sat, 02 Jun 2007 03:49:19 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/single-again#comment-66 strange. I fell upon your website, and have read a lot of your entries. It seems odd to me that you knew so much about your step-daughter...how did you know, for example, the drugs she was doing? I dont understand... I had a step father. Although, it seems as though, you could flip the whole situation, and put me in your spot, and him in your step-daughter's. I understand the fight that you had to undergo in order to open your wife's eyes. Sometimes, love is blinding...and in a horrible way. I wish that your life takes a new turn, as I am still attempting to get over the damage my step father has caused me, I pray that you are capable of looking into what you have done, and seeing that for the most part, it was for the safety of all. Good luck in your new life. strange. I fell upon your website, and have read a lot of your entries. It seems odd to me that you knew so much about your step-daughter…how did you know, for example, the drugs she was doing? I dont understand…

I had a step father. Although, it seems as though, you could flip the whole situation, and put me in your spot, and him in your step-daughter’s. I understand the fight that you had to undergo in order to open your wife’s eyes. Sometimes, love is blinding…and in a horrible way. I wish that your life takes a new turn, as I am still attempting to get over the damage my step father has caused me, I pray that you are capable of looking into what you have done, and seeing that for the most part, it was for the safety of all. Good luck in your new life.

]]> Comment on Conundrum by Taylor http://evilstepfather.org/article/conundrum/comment-page-1#comment-65 Taylor Sat, 02 Jun 2007 03:46:23 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/?p=11#comment-65 ...how do you know these things …how do you know these things

]]> Comment on The Right Thing by Ogre http://evilstepfather.org/article/the-right-thing/comment-page-1#comment-61 Ogre Tue, 08 May 2007 22:12:53 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/the-right-thing#comment-61 As I had told you multiple times, I could not adopt her without permission from her biological father. You didn't seem to want to ask him for said permission and I could not since we did not have a common language. How honorable was it for you to constantly lie to me? At least I was honest to you. I didn't leave you with all the treatment costs and medical bills. You chose that route when you left me and decided you didn't want anything to do with me. You could have stayed and did what you had promised in marriage counseling, but you didn't. I would have been perfectly willing to shoulder the burden of taking care of my family's treatment costs. It's what you do for family. It's a given. It's time you stop blaming me for the choices you made. I'm still trying to figure out what you are rambling about regarding the taxes. We filed jointly. That means WE claimed her as a dependent. You also are ignoring the huge amount of debt I took. Quit acting like I ran out on you and left you with a pile of bills. You ran out on me, and I still had the decency to take on nearly $20,000 of debt by myself. I guess the old saying is true, "no good deed goes unpunished." As I had told you multiple times, I could not adopt her without permission from her biological father.  You didn’t seem to want to ask him for said permission and I could not since we did not have a common language.

How honorable was it for you to constantly lie to me?  At least I was honest to you.  I didn’t leave you with all the treatment costs and medical bills.  You chose that route when you left me and decided you didn’t want anything to do with me.  You could have stayed and did what you had promised in marriage counseling, but you didn’t.  I would have been perfectly willing to shoulder the burden of taking care of my family’s treatment costs.  It’s what you do for family.  It’s a given.

It’s time you stop blaming me for the choices you made.

I’m still trying to figure out what you are rambling about regarding the taxes.  We filed jointly.  That means WE claimed her as a dependent.  You also are ignoring the huge amount of debt I took.  Quit acting like I ran out on you and left you with a pile of bills.  You ran out on me, and I still had the decency to take on nearly $20,000 of debt by myself.  I guess the old saying is true, “no good deed goes unpunished.”

]]> Comment on The Right Thing by Anya http://evilstepfather.org/article/the-right-thing/comment-page-1#comment-60 Anya Tue, 08 May 2007 20:43:39 +0000 http://evilstepfather.org/article/the-right-thing#comment-60 > I could have been a real bastard [....] I did it for myself. > Doing the right thing is important to me. Damn important. > It’s the honorable thing. I would never compromise on this principle What a load of BS. How honorable is it to not adopt my daughter in seven long years, leave all of her medical bills and treatment costs for me, but claim her as your dependent each year and, as a final touch, have me pay the past due taxes you owe. You can only fool yourself for so long. Sooner or later you will have to face yourself. > I could have been a real bastard [....] I did it for myself.
> Doing the right thing is important to me.  Damn important.
> It’s the honorable thing.  I would never compromise on this principle

What a load of BS.  How honorable is it to not adopt my daughter in seven long years, leave all of her medical bills and treatment costs for me, but claim her as your dependent each year and, as a final touch, have me pay the past due taxes you owe.

You can only fool yourself for so long.  Sooner or later you will have to face yourself.

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