Spite

Posted August 21st, 2008 by Ogre
Categories: (ex)Wife

Too often, after emailing her or posting something here, my ex would reply with something along the lines of, “anyone who could say such a thing couldn’t possibly care about me or my daughter.” I’m still trying to figure that out.  If I’m all niceness I’m, at best, ignored, more likely she would find something negative in anything I’ve said.  If I write about things that I am unhappy about, the same.  If I make a reasonably founded accusation, I’m threatened.  Basically, anything I do (short of dropping dead) gets negative results.  I’m in a lose-lose situation.

She denies being spiteful, but her actions show otherwise.  I suppose I shouldn’t criticize as I’m a bit petty and a lot bitter, but what the hell.

The point I’m trying to make is if no matter what I say, good or bad, if it’s taken in a negative light, what incentive do I have to tread softly?

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